News & Updates

Sep
02
Hi everyone! Today marks 6 months since Bryan moved to this rehab facility. It is really amazing to see his progress, though at times there are some steps backwards. Physically there are still his major hurdles, stiffness, pain, the extra bone growth that prevents him from doing simple tasks such as raising his arms. He is doing an amazing job maneuvering his manual wheelchair himself, even in tight spaces, but it takes him awhile to get where he is going and he gets tired. A wheelchair specifically fitted for Bryan has been ordered so we are waiting for that. Sometimes he gets down or discouraged if he can't do something. We tell him that by working at it, he will be able to do it, and that is something we truly believe. He helped pack his lunch this past week, even making his own peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Tuesday and Friday nights are karaoke nights at his apartment complex. He enjoys going to watch, and he sings the same song every time...Eye of the Tiger. His personality really comes out while singing and he has everyone laughing. Often Bry plays UNO with us or his roommates. We have come to the conclusion that he either doesn't know the rules or is cheating. Judging by his lack of a poker face, we think it's the latter. We know we have said it before but Bryan's smile and laugh means the world to us. Little does he know that with a simple smile, and without saying a word, he lights up the dark.

Comments

# laura <3
Sunday, September 02, 2012 2:55 AM
Ya, new update!!!!!!
Love to hear what is going in your life. Bry please do not give up or get upset when things get harder. Just take a 'time out' but, then get back to the task at hand. EaCh and everyday you are getting stronger and learning all new things.
LOve to know that you singing - I can't hold a note for the life of me. Glad you are getting out and hanging out with the people in your new living community. You are the best and don't you ever forget that. Bry you are are often on my mind and in my heart. Keep going and maybe you will allow your family to post you singing. Sending love your way and again thank you Stow for keeping us in the loop. WE love you ALL <3
# Shelly Taylor
Sunday, September 02, 2012 3:22 AM
Dear Bryan,
Keep Up The Good Work! I enjoyed hearing of your awesome progress!
That is so Cool you got it going on with Karaoke Nights!
You and your room mates will have to start a garage band pretty soon!
God Likes Rock N Roll Buddy!
Thank You Stow Family For The Awesome Update,
It was really refreshing reading an inspiring
page from my favorite family! Robert and I
send out our prayers and well wishes to you all.
Giant Hugs and Kisses,
Shelly Taylor
Sunday, September 02, 2012 9:33 AM
You are right for believing and encouraging him to keep working at it...it will get easier for him as it did for Samantha. Samantha always enjoyed a little competition to motivate her to push through a hard task....winning is always a great feeling. And yes, btw she does cheat if she has to to win. Gets it from her dad!

I'm thinking about that program for Samantha. A short time living on her own and seeing if we can give her more independence. She's very interested and ready. Hope I am.

Bryan is definitely doing amazing. What an awesome person he must be!
# Mona
Sunday, September 02, 2012 12:25 PM
Thank you for the update. I have a smile on my face and am silently cheering Bryan as I imagine him singing away. :) I can't sing much either but lend my voice (always) in admiration and support of all of you. Love and all great wishes.
# Paulio
Sunday, September 02, 2012 12:41 PM
I checked for an update yesterday because I had a feeling one might be incoming. Thanks to facebook I saw this morning that I was a day early. I am so glad to see this update. I often think about Bryan and you good Stow folks. I've been watching the Paralympics for the past few days, and I've seen absolute proof that disabilities can be overcome. I've watched people missing multiple limbs enter and win swimming events. I've seen blind or legally blind people run track. I've seen people with upper spinal cord injuries do amazing things in wheelchair races. The future is still unwritten and Bryan can still be who he wants to be. He sure is lucky to have a strong family, because you're right: by working at something, it can be achieved. So thanks again for this update, Stow family. Cheers, Bryan!

And I hope no one will mind if I plug the Paralympics once again and note that you can watch TONS of coverage LIVE at paralympic.org or over on youtube.com/user/ParalympicSportTV . It's going on for one more week and is highly worth a look if you have the time.
# Sondra
Sunday, September 02, 2012 3:02 PM
Sending love from Raleigh, NC. Come by frequently to check for updates. Love that you still take the time to update those that pray for Bryan and your family.
# Carleen
Sunday, September 02, 2012 5:38 PM
Hey Bryan, we like peanut butter and jelly sandwiches too. You're pretty brave to sing Eye of the Tiger on Karaoke. None of my family would have the nerve to do that! Keep singing, keep getting stronger.
Lots of love and support from the Rhodes family in Vancouver, WA
# Jeannie
Sunday, September 02, 2012 10:52 PM
Tons & Tons of Hugs from Canada Bryan. You continue to be in my thoughts.

Jeannie
# Cassandra Brockelman
Monday, September 03, 2012 12:45 AM
I love the rehab/transition idea! We had a really hard time when Eric first came home, and that would have been wonderful. He was so sick and tired of all the inpatient rules, that he would stop at nothing to get "thrown out" as he recalls!

I have stopped our Facebook page, but I think I may start a web page, like yours, to keep Eric's updates available. We've been through some really challenging times lately, but it's such an overwhelming thing Eric's done. He survived. I want to share it with the world. His reasons for being alive and being too stubborn to die, he said, was his boys. He said he hadn't taught them to be men yet.

TBI is so frustrating...for everyone involved. You want that same person back, but at the same time...you're thrilled that he's still here to share life with us, no matter how hard it is sometimes. Eric's been driving himself crazy thinking of ideas for projects around the house, but he can't do them yet. He wants to take the boys fishing more than anything. For us, he said he wants to reconnect and "get that magic back."

Overall--he IS walking! He just decided to skip the walker and cane! Ok with us :)!!! So many, so many outside factors and obstacles have been thrown at us all. Wen it comes down to it, it's really all petty. Family disagreements, days missed from work for dr apts, not having the laundry/dishes done all the time, being late to work/school, and so much more. All these things don't matter when it comes to the precious life we've been given the opportunity to live.

Like my Grandma just told me today...she wants the song, "One day at a time" played at her funeral. The reason: because we never know how much time God has given us, and every day should be lived like that. I've learned to cherish the days God was graceful enough to allow Eric to stay here with us. I'm learning, and trying to remember this and forget all the rest.

Eric is trying to be strong and optimistic, but I cannot even try to imagine how hard it is to struggle with this brain injury everyday. There's so much he wants to do when he gets a little bit better. First on the list is fishing with the boys :)

Oh-and Eric also loves to sing and rhyme and make up his own cute songs! We're hanin in there, and I'm glad you all are too. It's going to get better. Everyday.

Love, Cassandra
Wife of Eric- a tbi survivor
# A Escoto`
Monday, September 03, 2012 1:42 PM
Bryan - you continue to be in our thoughts and our prayers - we hope for your continued progress - God bless you and your family. We just bought the dvd of the flannery concert - can't wait to get it! Take care! the Escoto family
# Ed Evans
Tuesday, September 04, 2012 3:54 AM
Hey there Bryan & Hello to the Stow's. I haven't seen any updates on Facebook so I thought I'd come here to search out the latest and was surprised to see this latest news. I'm glad to hear of your progress and recoveries. You've really come a long way in the last year....AWESOME!! Bryan, you are in my daily and continued prayers to our God for a complete recovery. Do not quit on your recovery and I will not quit on this prayer. May God continue to richly bless you all. Take care. Hope to hear more good news soon.
# Sharon
Tuesday, September 04, 2012 2:57 PM
Thank you for the great post on Bryan's improvements.

And for you Bryan, why bother making a peanut butter sandwich when you can take a spoon and eat the peanut butter out of the jar.

Keep up the great work Bryan

Sharon mommy to three dogs
# Dolores
Saturday, September 08, 2012 7:15 AM
It's nice to hear your making progress Bryan. Our family here in Orange County, California are praying for you. I wish to God so much we could have done more for U on that dreadful day. You will ALWAYS be in our prayers and thought of each and everyday. Take care to U and you family...
# ariel
Saturday, September 08, 2012 10:51 PM
brian,i hope you are getting better and that terrible thing will never happen again you seem like a nice guy even tho you are a giants fan i respect you so much hope you can soon go to a giants game with your familly =)
# Tina
Tuesday, September 11, 2012 5:39 PM
It always brings a smile to me to read your updates. Bryan, keep the faith! You are a wonderful person and have touched so many people that even though we might not know you we feel that we are part of your family. Love to all of you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

# shell
Friday, September 14, 2012 2:21 AM
Hi,
I've been here since the beginning but never commented. I'm still here, and my face still lights up when I see a good Bryan update. It was always kind of personal to see them. I was in Physical Therapy school when Bryan got hurt. I watched his progress the whole time and thought about him while I studied, mostly neurology. I graduated and it looks like it might wind up being party of my specialty. Please keep updating. It's so motivating to see what Bryan is doing, and what the family is doing. It's not even just an update anymore. I get a little lesson every time. Thanks,
Shell
# Ellie
Tuesday, September 18, 2012 2:07 AM
I too have never commented, but I like to check in to see how he is progressing. It breaks my heart reading these updates, but my heart smiles at the optimism and perseverance that your family has. I will continue to pray for his recovery. Try and keep the optimism up and remember that bad days can be like bad seasons, the Giants have earned the name Giants torture, and Bryan's setbacks may be heartbreaking, but in baseball we hold on to our faith in our team and hope for something magical. Just as our Giants have done in 2010, and what we are currently on the road to again. Bryan needs that same faith and prayer for a miracle, hoping for a little magic. God bless your family.
# Sonya J
Wednesday, September 19, 2012 12:14 PM
Praying for you Bryan.
# Claussen's Corner
Sunday, September 23, 2012 12:17 AM
9/22/12, 9:15 PM
GO GIANTS...Nat'l League West Division Champs!! All of us here are thinking of all of you there!!
With love,
Claussen's Corner
Angels Camp
# Rachel C.
Tuesday, September 25, 2012 11:26 AM
Eye of the Tiger! A more appropriate song has not yet been written! So good to hear that Bryan is progressing, even if it is slower than he would like. My boss has a wonderful saying, not sure if he took it from someone but since there is nothing new under the sun... it's "Progress not Perfection". And that is exactly what is going on here. progress. Bryan you continue to astound, amaze and render me speechless with your insane perserverance and good humor.

pssttt... Bryan... I think the folks are on to you about the Uno scam... ;D

(((((((((((Bryan))))))))))))) you and your family and your children and your friends are all in my daily prayers. Blessings and continued healing... and you keep watching us all with the Eye of the Tiger!!!

Love,

R.
# Renee
Friday, October 05, 2012 5:32 PM
Thinking of Bryan and the Stow family as the Giants march into the post season. I am hopeful that Bryan still gets a thrill out of watching his boys. Bless you all. Bryan is always in my prayers.

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2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Just posting positive thoughts on Brian's recovery - hoping to see an update on how he is doing, and keeping him and his family in my prayers
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
I'm with Rachel C., I'm checking in on you tonight, Bryan, because I've been thinking about you and your family the last few days. I've got a feeling you've all been going through a tough time lately (understatement of the year, right?) and I just wanted to say that everyone I know is amazed and proud of how far you've come. Bryan, just do what you can do each day and don't worry about the rest. Life is short enough as it is. You've got an amazing family and that's more important than anything else in this life.

2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Just checking in after all this time to say how much i still think about you and your whole family. You keep at it Bryan! Every day every moment you keep at it! We love you and support you and every day pray for your well being and the strength of your family.

God bless you, and here's to a WONDERFUL year. :)
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Happy May Bryan and Family. The jacaranda trees are blooming here and later spring is definitely in the air. I hope the sun is shining for you, too. I also think of you and your family daily and will forever wish you the very best. I hope this weekend will be a good one for you all. My birthday will be on Sunday. One of my my "wishes" will most definitely be for a healthier and happier year ahead for you, too. Peace and love to you always.
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Good Day, Bryan!
The sun is shining here in Vancouver, WA - a pleasant treat for us. It made me think of you and the first time you got to go outside after the long months you spent indoors healing. I think of you and pray for you and your family often.
Healing thoughts and prayers,
Carleen in Vancouver, WA
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
I will never stop following Bryan's progress. Everytime I come here and read your blog I feel inspired by your love and support. I always wonder how you find the strength. You are an amazing and beautiful family. I hope Bryan can feel the warmth and the embrace of your unfaltering love.

God Bless
Bryan is in my thoughts always
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
I never posted before. I am a New Yorker, Yankee fan, but read about what happened to Brian 2 years ago and have been following him ever since. It is inspiring to me how he and his family are fighting through this. I send this love from NYC. Praying for best for not only Brian, but also his children, siblings, parents as well.

P.S. Thank you for continuing to post 2 years later.
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Hey Bryan,
I was thinking of you and want you to know that you are love by many. I hope you are enjoying this wonderful weather and working on your tan :) The Giants are doing well. Hope you can get to a few games this year. It would be great if the A's played the Giants in the world series. I love my A's but, I love more how the Giants have really taken you under their wing. <3 sending lots of <3 and ((HUG)) you are a ROCK Star <3 <3 <3
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Hello Bryan. I've written a few times and sent my retro Metallic post card about a year back. Instantly thought of you when, upon hearing news Giants & Metallica. Tried to find someone, no luck. I will have my cool Stowe wristband, and having feeling I won't feel too alone for lone.

I have ticket for extra cap that is the promotional one, I will check back or contact to see if you recei
ved one. If not will mail to you. If you do have one well then I will have a spare!

Okay, I should be asleep, way excited. 3 hour drive and I probably will arrive at 9:00 in morning as been too long. Maybe four years.

Sincerely with love from the Salazar's and Bruce Mckown families we love and talk about you often.

GO GIANTS.........Yes of course.....GO METALLICA!!!!

:)
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Build a little fence of trust around today..
Fill the space with loving work, and therein stay.
Look not through the sheltering bars upon tomorrow...
God will help you bear what comes of joy and sorrow!

I think of all of you so often, and check to see if any news has been posted about Byran. Mere words just seem so insufficient, but they are all we have to convey what we feel. So again I will just say that we unite with you in spirit and prayer and deep and abiding love for healing and comfort and endurance!

Libbie Adams
Richlands, NC
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
I check almost every day for news about Bryan and the Stowe family. I don't post too often, mostly cause I don't have much to offer. I am still recovering from my stroke almost 4 years ago, and your story and the strength of your family inspires me to keep on working at my recovery. Bryan is so lucky to have a strong family who supports him. I wish you were MY family and I had that strength behind me.
All my prayers go with you
Gina
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
No special reason or day just wanted you Bryan and your family to know I am thinking of you. I hope the Bay Area is getting some of the sun we are enjoying here in LA. Peace and love to all ogf you always.
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Just sending my love and alot of hugs.... What a wonderful family you are.. Children are forever and I am sooo proud of all that you have endured with a smile and faith in Bryans healing. God is surely there for you all!! God bless you and keep helping Bryan heal because someday I want him to know how many people care about he and his family!! Keep the faith!!! Christy
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Hard to believe it has been two years isn't it?

I've been a supporter from day one and have posted on a regular basis until January 7th of this year when my nephew (close to Bryan's age) suffered a seizure with a brain bleed. Three months & three surgeries and we are still waiting patiently & hopefully for him to fully wake up.

I now find myself in a hospital bedroom most nights with my nephew but I think of Bryan daily. I will never give up praying for Bryan's continued progress.

I now find myself reading the updates for not only to check on Bryan, for for inspiration that things can get better.

My heart will always be with the Stowe family. Who would have guessed in a million years that after two years of posting on Bryan's website, I would be experiencing this firsthand.

I love you Bryan...keep fighting my friend!

Love and continued prayers ALWAYS!

Jeannie
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Hang in there, Bryan! Its so good to hear of your progress and I only hope for more for you! Just wanted you to know you've touched my heart from far away ;~) Arlene
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Thank you for the update. You're lookin' handsome there Bryan and your family is just the best! Hang in... Nancy
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family, Bryan! God Bless You!

Update 5/29/2012
You are still in my prayers and will continue to be my AMR brother.


Benita
scheduler/ EMT-paramedic
AMR Dallas operations
2 YEARS - 4/1/13
Bryan, we never really knew each other outside of the ECH ER. I do remember joking with patients and each other, and our amazing sense of humor.

Your progress has been amazing to watch, you have been, and will continue to be in my prayers. Keep fighting the good fight!